Along with feeding my family, the next common question I receive has to do with chores: types, what ages, pay/no pay, and how often. I thought the easiest way to address this question was just to write it out since it is a rather complex issue. Before I begin, I want to share that I have really just had an epiphany moment on this very subject. Don't get me wrong, my kids have been doing chores for years, but I often struggled in this area. I had a difficult time enforcing chores on a regular basis because of guilt. As a child, I had chores to do. My mother worked and I was required to help around the house. As I got older and the responsibility increased, I became angry at having to do so much. Now, as a mom, I struggled with my own children because I didn't want them to become resentful towards me. It was a constant inner battle that often resulted in me trying to do everything that needed to be done...and accomplishing nothing! The past few weeks the Lord has been show...
Seeing God's blessings in everyday life. . .